The bare truth about everything you ever wanted to know about love, relationships, dating, life, and sex, but were afraid to ask.
ONE NIGHT I was talking on the phone to one of the men calling into the phone sex lines I was working on. I asked my usual icebreaker question to get the guys talking about themselves and not sex, which was whether the guy was married or single. When he said he was married, I then asked where his wife was at the moment. He said upstairs and that he got off on talking on the lines while she was sleeping. This is what people don’t understand about the entire Weiner sexting and sex chat saga. Many men do it for sport, for fun, for cheap, easy thrills and most don’t get caught.
Apologies to regular readers who already know this, but for those who don’t know, I spent 10 years or so excavating the dating, sex, and relationship industries. I was into the online dating genre long before Match.com or EHarmony were regularly advertising on TV. It’s a longer story I’ll talk about some day. One of the places I took a peek was the phone sex world. Anthony Weiner and “Sydney Leathers,” first identified by Buzzfeed, hooked up daily and enjoyed phone sex, according to reports.
Former President Bill Clinton and Monica Lewinsky had phone sex. It’s a perfect way for a philanderer to enjoy himself without having to pay a price. The problem comes when an affair veers into love, which is a forbidden mistake of epic proportions and equal size consequences.
Photo image by Buzzfeed.
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